{"id":396,"date":"2011-11-13T06:58:03","date_gmt":"2011-11-13T12:58:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mgmorrow.com\/IronSharpensIron\/?p=396"},"modified":"2012-11-10T20:27:38","modified_gmt":"2012-11-11T02:27:38","slug":"152-im-having-a-different-experience","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mgmorrow.com\/IronSharpensIron\/2011\/11\/13\/152-im-having-a-different-experience\/","title":{"rendered":"0152 &#8212; I&#8217;m Having a Different Experience"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>Couples (and sometimes churches) experience events in their lives differently and wind up arguing about \u201cwho said what\u201d and therefore \u201cwho is really right.\u201d I have found it far more productive for couples to acknowledge, \u201cI\u2019m having a different experience of this than you,\u201d and to vulnerably invite, \u201chelp me understand yours better.\u201d When Modernism persuades us Reason is the only game in town, intimate relationships suffer greatly. When both members of the marriage can acknowledge they have subjective interpretations of events, including fights, humility that brings unity can prevail.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Quote from SCOTT GREEN, 7\/28\/2011<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Couples (and sometimes churches) experience events in their lives differently and wind up arguing about \u201cwho said what\u201d and therefore \u201cwho is really right.\u201d I have found it far more productive for couples to acknowledge, \u201cI\u2019m having a different experience &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mgmorrow.com\/IronSharpensIron\/2011\/11\/13\/152-im-having-a-different-experience\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":15,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[45],"tags":[113,89,46,47,48,49],"class_list":["post-396","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-quotes","tag-family","tag-green","tag-marriage","tag-modernism","tag-postmodernism","tag-reason"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mgmorrow.com\/IronSharpensIron\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/396","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mgmorrow.com\/IronSharpensIron\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mgmorrow.com\/IronSharpensIron\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mgmorrow.com\/IronSharpensIron\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/15"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mgmorrow.com\/IronSharpensIron\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=396"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.mgmorrow.com\/IronSharpensIron\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/396\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":503,"href":"https:\/\/www.mgmorrow.com\/IronSharpensIron\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/396\/revisions\/503"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mgmorrow.com\/IronSharpensIron\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=396"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mgmorrow.com\/IronSharpensIron\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=396"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mgmorrow.com\/IronSharpensIron\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=396"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}